Welcome to Down to Find Out, a column in which Nona Willis Aronowitz addresses your biggest questions about sex, dating, relationships, and all the gray areas in between. In our first installment, she answers a Teen Vogue editor's question about digital consent. Have a question for Nona?
The first focuses on how to get a girl to send you naked pictures. You can read the whole article or click on the section that interests you the most. Do I have your word?
You should get down on your knees every day and thank whichever god you believe in for bringing the iPhone into your hands. Never before has remote foreplay been so easy, making the sexy selfie a standard in hormone-fueled texting. However, not unlike celebrated photographers in the field, mediocrity should not be tolerated.
Snapping a few sexy photos of yourself can be a lot of fun and help you feel more beautiful and confident in your skin. Before you start taking those photos, do your hair and makeup, pick out some erotic garments, and set the scene for your photography session. Try to relax and have fun while you capture some new images of yourself.
Can you imagine a time before we had smartphones? Without them what would our naked selfies even look like? Still, learning how to take good nudes is an art form.
You've probably taken a nude selfie or two in your life, but did you love it? Like, really love it? Chances are that in the past, you may have taken at least 20 or so naked selfies before finding a photo that captured exactly the image you wanted to save or send.
When we feel good about ourselves, we want other people to know about it. When we're feeling particularly hot, we want the person we're hooking up with to see it. And if we're not with them in person, this usually comes in the form of a nude. It makes total sense, right?
After a spate of recently-hacked phone nudes, it's clear our advice to never shoot pictures of your own junk isn't going to catch on. So if you're going to do it, at least do it well. Here's how to make your naked shots shine.